By: Verina Zonise
It’s okay to fall in love and get lost in the comfort it
brings. It’s okay to be vulnerable with a person who honors your soul. We were made
to love, nourish, and feel the butterflies that let you know you’re alive! It’s
also okay to be afraid. When you are feeling so much so fast insecurities may
come, wounds from the past may resurface, but know that it’s normal to
experience all of that. To face the unknown and trust in a process in which you
don’t know what the outcome will be can take even the strongest person through
the motions. Yet the key here to know is that the purpose of love is not the
destination but the journey. The things you learn about yourself while being in
love is priceless. I know some people say the blinders are on and we do silly
things all in the name of love, and yes, sometimes that is true. Yet for me
being in love has made me very aware of myself from every angle. I’ve examined
what I’m thinking during these moments of euphoria, and even pushed further and
asked myself, why am I having certain
thoughts, what am I feeling and why am I feeling it, how do I look, how am I
responding, and how am I showing up in the world.
I believe that being in love shows you a mirror of yourself.
You begin to see the beauty within yourself but also areas you would like to
improve. Being in love shows you the possibilities of life and gives you
inspiration. In my experience I dream even bigger, selfishness melts away, and
I simply want to be the best version of myself. There’s nothing wrong with
daydreaming and gushing with your friends over sweet good morning texts or a romantic evening between the one you love. It is being in love that if you surrender to the process can have you see what your really wanting
and needing in your life. It directly supports you in getting to know that part
of yourself that you try to hide, suppress, and even protect.
Be free in your love. Don’t let others tell you what’s right
or wrong. Feel it with your heart not your head. Be in the moment and not lost in
worrying about future moments that may or may not happen. Enjoy the loving
texts, enjoy the movie night, enjoy the flowers, the inside jokes, the quiet
still moments. Take it for what it is and inhale it. Love without conditions
and maybe even more importantly, allow yourself to be loved.
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